1. Define Your Vision: Start by dreaming big! What’s your ideal wedding vibe? Think about themes, colors, and the overall feel you want for your day. Remember, this is all about YOU.

2. Set Your Budget: Let’s talk numbers. Determine how much you’re willing to spend and allocate funds to different aspects of your wedding. This helps keep everything on track and stress-free.

3. Choose a Date: Pick a date that’s meaningful to you both. Consider the season, weather, and availability of your dream venue.

4. Create a Guest List: Who do you want to share your special day with? Draft a list of your closest friends and family, and don’t stress about traditional seating arrangements – make it yours!

5. Select a Venue: Look for a venue that fits your vision and is inclusive. Ensure it’s accessible for all your guests and has the vibe you’re going for, whether it’s a cozy garden or an urban loft.

6. Find Your Vendors: Choose vendors who are inclusive and align with your values. From caterers to florists, make sure they understand and celebrate your vision for a genderless wedding.

7. Design Your Invitations: Get creative with your invites! Reflect your theme and personality, and include all necessary details for your guests. Consider digital invites for a more eco-friendly option.

8. Plan Your Ceremony: Decide on the structure of your ceremony. This could include personalized vows, special readings, or unique rituals that reflect your relationship and beliefs.

9. Choose Attire: Wear what makes you feel fabulous! Whether it’s a suit, a dress, or something completely unconventional, make sure it reflects your style and makes you feel amazing.

10. Arrange Transportation: Plan how you and your guests will get to and from the venue. Consider hiring inclusive transportation services that cater to everyone’s needs.

11. Create a Playlist: Curate a playlist that gets everyone dancing and celebrates your unique taste in music. Include songs that are meaningful to you as a couple.

12. Decor and Details: Think about the aesthetics – flowers, centerpieces, and decor that align with your theme. Don’t be afraid to mix things up and make it truly unique.

13. Plan the Reception: Organize the flow of your reception, including speeches, dinner, and dancing. Ensure there are no strict gender roles in any traditional aspects.

14. Inclusive Touches: Add elements that make everyone feel welcome, such as gender-neutral restrooms, accessible seating, and inclusive language throughout your event.

15. Relax and Enjoy: On the big day, take a deep breath and enjoy every moment. You’ve planned an epic celebration of your love, and it’s time to party!

16. Post-Wedding: Send out thank you notes, review your photos and videos, and relive the magical moments. Reflect on the day and celebrate the start of your new journey together.

By following this genderless wedding planning checklist, you’ll create a celebration that’s uniquely yours and truly inclusive. Ready to start planning? Let’s make your wedding day unforgettable! 🌟💍